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Here is a Method to Help You Analyze How YOU Help or Hurt your Success

Thursday, March 4th, 2010

Ask yourself:bizwomandollars

Do I Have a Trusted Advisor?

Do I take Advise from that Person?

One of the most important Truths I picked up in my years learning to be an executive coach came from an extremely successful coach with a multi-million dollar coaching practice filled with some of the most successful CEO’s and business leaders in the world.

Profoundly successful business leaders TAKE ADVICE from trusted advisors and implement that advice. They do not question the advice. They seek clarification and then they implement. After all, they hired that professional to advise them, to improve their performance, to guide them to greater success. The results are always greater satisfaction, success, and fulfillment; they have more time with their families, more money to spend, and more joy in their lives. 

However, mid-level successful business leaders QUESTION ADVICE they garner from their trusted advisor. They challenge the wisdom of the wise person they have hired. They argue about the wisdom and they come up with reasons why the advice is wrong, why it won’t work in their case, and why they cannot do it.

What does that mean? The most successful people understand what they do not know and rely on experts to help them. The less successful people are unsure of themselves and DO NOT understand what they don’t know. They have to be in control and they have to be right. They think they know better than the expert. The results are their progress is slower, they don’t achieve their goals, and they work harder.

The Lesson: When you spend your time trying to re-invent the wheel, do it your own way, believe you always know best, you are impeding your own progress toward success. If you find yourself objecting to this thesis, then look at your own success and see if you’re objecting because I’ve touched a sore spot!

Next Steps: When it comes to your business, or, for that matter, your life, your dreams, your goals, even your problems, who do you trust to advise you? Do you take that advise? What can you do right now to improve your chances for success? How can your advisor help you take your business and life to the next level?  Contact me today!

Tags: confidence, confidence connections, confidence report, corporate success, professional image, success, women executives, women leaders
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Job Searches: Times Change

Tuesday, June 30th, 2009

Are you using social networks to find employment?
If not, you’re missing an important tool. One of my clients was found through LinkedIn when his profile matched an employer’s needs. the employer sought him out and the match was perfect.

Here are some important ways to use social networks to build your confidence connections:

  • your photo
  • a strong and accurate bio/resume/description of you and your background
  • having others post recommendations on your LinkedIn page
  • joining groups with people who would be of assistance to you
  • participating in group discussions so you become known and can demonstrate your expertise
  • establish connections to ‘connectors’ (those extroverts who get around and seem to know everyone)
  • add connections to those in your industry
  • don’t forget connections to friends and family who will learn more about you and what you do from that bio you wrote
  • sharing your connections with others

For more info on social networking and other job search tips, click on the title of this article and read a recent newspaper article on this subject.

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